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B'nei Mitzvah Preparation

Becoming a B Mitzvah is an important transition in a young Jewish person's life, and it happens automatically when they turn 12/13 years old. We celebrate this coming of age with a special Shabbat service, where the student gets to show the community how much they have learned over the years.

 

What are the requirements to have a B Mitzvah service at CBSBH?

We require the student to attend formal Jewish education, either with us or through another approved path, for at least four consecutive years prior to their B Mitzvah service.

The student must make arrangements with RabbiB to attend a number of Shabbat morning services and help lead as many prayers as they are able. This is to help the student become more comfortable and confident leading in front of a supportive group of regulars.

 

What accommodations are there for B Mitzvah students with disabilities?

We make every effort to accommodate all of our students no matter what abilities or disabilities they may have. We are more than happy to speak with the family and make adjustments to what the student is expected to learn and lead for their B Mitzvah service. And while most students celebrate their B Mitzvah when they are 13 years old, it may also happen later if necessary. 

 

When does tutoring begin?

Tutoring sessions with Rabbi Noyo begin around 7 months prior to the B Mitzvah service date. In these sessions, students learn how to read or chant their Torah portion and haftarah portion along with the respective blessings, and practice other prayers as well.

Students also set up sessions with RabbiB to learn more about the contents of their Torah and haftarah portions, and to work on a d'var Torah, a formal teaching on a theme from their portion to deliver to the community during the Torah service. These begin around 3 months prior to the B Mitzvah service date.

 

B’nei Mitzvah Guide

Learn more about the process, the logistics, and the expections in our B'nei Mitzvah Guide!

Click Here to Download B'nei Mitzvah Guide 2025

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